My prayer is that you feel the love of God, the comfort of Jesus, and the presence of the Holy Spirit as you wrestle with your thoughts and feelings. Don’t lose hope. Emotional needs exist too, no matter how much people out here want to deny and suppress emotions and feelings like they don’t exist. If you often feel … My personal life is suffering. They ask, Every human being, no matter how loved or happy they seem to be on the outside, at some point feels like nobody cares. Before Mom was buried, I was hit with a massive lawsuit from two banks for unpaid loans that I knew nothing about. And I guess I have. I’m having a great, sunny day! I believe those clouds are preventing you from feeling hopeful. It’s a foolish thought, I know! I couldn’t reach out and ask for help. I fell so in love with her that it devastated me . Please dont think that way. As for finding a partner at age 60, my family dr recommend E-Harmony. I hope you know that the silver lining is out there and it won’t be long before you find it, dont question me and just embrace it :)))). But I’m here just to say you are No loser!! Thanks again for the encouragement, and I hope you have a wonderfully blessed day. Two adult children and I understand how you feel. My health is degrading because I can’t eat or rest properly. Especially since she grew up that way. Not everyone is honest or authentic about how they feel, though…and that’s what makes you unique. 55 year old gay man, my partner died, my family has passed away. And trust me, no one can be your friend better than yourself. Debt helping people…close to 17,000. Sometimes the worst moments are at night when everyone seems to be gone, and it’s just me. When I was mover to general population I emded up leading 24 womam to a relationship with God. They recieve my love, yet I feel nonexistent. My story began 30 years ago when my sister left it to me to deal with Mom and Dad’s myriad (serious) health problems. Keep searching for those things and people – don’t give up! All my life from the womb until now, life has just only done the job of reminding me I am nothing and am not wanted from anybody. Hello, Jackie. Life seems meaningless when no one needs me anyway. I feel like I’m just waiting for the day where someone actually shows me that they care and love me. Helping others is another way to really take the focus off feeling so alone. Hi Cate The thing that was weird was I felt it but I couldn’t let it out. But you have to discover this for yourself! Yes, God is my only consolation. Weight training and teaching aerobics made me strong in my body and my mind!! I feel alone on my days off even though I look forward to them. Am i a bad person,no im not,i just gave the wrong people the benefit of the doubt,so happens it was family members. From Isaiah 41:10. It will pass. So my only Q is why only good people always suffer?. Nobody can love you the way God does – especially when you feel like nobody cares. Wow. Stay strong and true!! I feel like no one cares about me. I don’t know what, and I don’t know who would need anything from me. I posted this in an extremely negative state of mind. Or lost. Honestly some of the first part of the article was ok, but most of it was just some Christian BS, don’t bring a god into an emotional problem. If I didn’t have two little puppy dogs who need me, I probably would have committed suicide long ago. I guess what I’m saying is that pain is pain. My problems is i hate and resent everyone. I never felt like my parents valued me and that if something better came up they would cancel plans with me. My health has deteriorated suddenly and nothing seems to go right anymore. Her actions have to be the most unGodly, & unchristian things I have ever seen! This was not a very nice person and you are better off without them. My sister has her own problems with her boyfriend so she dont have time to listen to my problems. Your point one in this article hit home to me. I'm going to let you know a secret. Thank you for sharing. I’m single, in my 60s and hate it when my married friends arrange to do something then dump me when their husband wants to do something suddenly. I’m tired of being the one that gives and I don’t even have the energy and motivation to give to people. I told my daughters that their emotional distance disrespects the commitment I made to them when I was a single mom. 7 Ideas for Christians Who Don’t Fit In at Church, Coping With Life When You Feel Numb and Empty, Travel in Faith: Tools & Tips for Travel That Transforms You. There have been sad and bad seasons before and then there were happy seasons, so I know I just need to get through this and circumstances will change eventually. I should definitely try to find new hobbies. I am a Christian I will not leave my husband even though I know he is not here for me. I go to the gym but its hard. It’s called “I Am Here” by Scripture Lullabies, and it’s such a comforting and heartwarming song. From underneath the trees, we watch the sky. When I see a person alone I do seek them out. Surround yourself with good friends and activities that make you so happy. But we don’t—not even a little. While we live on thjs earth, we will go through many things but God promises a new home where we will never ever shed a tear. We all live for a brief moment, then die, and what’s the point? Thank you for being there in the ether and helping me feel less alone. I also had another session where I was to process the anger and rage suppressed for years. What it means is that there is something wrong with THEM. It is true, no one cares! I suffer from their loss everyday, but according to them not as much as they do and they think it is better not to talk about it. Good Day End Of The Day. I’m not Christian and I don’t believe any god will take my troubles away. You’re absolutely right about getting to know God. Booze. But put 1 foot forward. Thank you Elonor! However, my friends are only semi-close. Thank you, Isa – it’s great to hear from you! Or is just the 21st century babies problems/habit?? It’s so frustrating. I don’t know how to achieve my big dreams. This is a practice, a meditation. My last post I was not in a good place. I live in a neighborhood but our neighbors might as well be a whole continent away. I too am alone. Hold on! I do visit every year for a few days. My Wifes karma will not come from me, & I may not be around to see when it happens, but it will happen. My friends are getting better grades than mine. You have fallen into the trap of believing what you think. ... What if, for two minutes, you could actually care about them? A holiday or visiting a friend maybe. Now, find something to do this week that you will enjoy. Nobody cares about me Anonymous. If he could cheat it shows he is a lost man and needs to find himself and not other woman! People are just so selfish and greedy. You might not think so but it’s true. help coping with feeling unloved and unwanted, How to Cope When You Want Your Old Life Back, How to Cope With Abuse When You Can’t Leave Home, You Matter More Than You Know ~ Echoes of Maria, Words of Comfort When Your Heart is Broken, https://tinybuddha.com/blog/10-things-remember-feel-lost-alone/, 3 Things to Remember When You Want to Go Home. Hold on to your hope and faith that life will get better. Our environment, our disappearing animals, our beaches, our world AND IT DOES NOT have to be trying to get people to pay attention to you or care! This isn’t just about feeling unwanted and like no one cares about you…this is part of a deeper, more important calling on your life. Hope you understand. At his funeral .I again looked around. Looking at the sun then feeling the sun in your heart. Who Cares. They are either alone like me or stuck with not so nice people). , i have 2 kids , I gave up on that relationship because my kids Father was cheating a lot on me , I felt maybe he never loved me. Hi Cici, i am really sad and sorry for what you have had to deal with in your life and i think those previous relationships/lack of have really affected the way you feel now. However, I was attracting the wrong friends. Even if you have family and friends, your life will never be the same. I feel spiritually that I need to be back there. I feel like the punch line to a bad joke. I went alone, though I knew a few people there. Remember you are still here. I’m even in a relationship if not married. My oldest daughter is out on her own and my youngest is a junior in high school. They can leave you down.When my husband died they couldnt even bring me a cup off soup.But boy they wanted alot. I also can’t really afford it, but I’m giving myself this xmas gift of a little trip. Write them down, do them and and you will start pulling yourself out of your situation. But the thing is we all have our own problems and sometimes getting so caught up in feeling sorry for ourselves for these problems is the reason that we close ourselves off from the world. You’ ll see. His girlfriend but now wife joined in persecuting me so much that I lost my group of friends. I hesitated after reading what you wrote. I hope the best for you I still destroying myself over her. I know I need to move on, but I resist anything positive. I understand it seems hopeless but it’s not. There z a wine shop beside my house stil idono how can my mom do this to us There is always something. Hates me and all of us here on earth. I AM all alone and unwanted. At first everything was going fine. I did remarry at 46 years old and have been married 10 years. You will learn how special you are and how much you mean to him. I think Ecclesiastes also says somewhere that there is a time for everything. I was injury in line of duty as and EMT, no doctor could help me but for drugs. Buy something for yourself (not too expensive) or go for a walk and have a cup of coffee or tea. Actual friends love you for you, they don’t even think about calling you a loser. I have given my self to being a mom which I am okay at and a wife which I feel like I have failed based on the tension between my spouse and I .I hope that you find a way to cope as I am looking for ways to do so myself I feel that I am to young for this but I guess not young enough. It is sometimes hard to see a future but think of 3 things to look forward to. I have friends who has help me but alot of times I am on my own , even gave up on God one time. If we gave up we would have never learned to walk, ride a bike or even speak! Nobody cared about me. The truth is that somebody does care about me. I have never met anyone else. But they are not here when I need them. I would attempt to share with her what had just happened, because it was impacting me greatly.. but each time she would listen but not say a word, she’d give me a very warm smile.. then pull a magazine out of her bag, open it to a page and point. Thank you so much for this. Now, I’m in my 50s, I’ve spent my ENTIRE life giving and sacrificing for other people, often at the expense and to the detriment of my own life, and now I have nothing and no one. Byron Katie taught me how to question what I think and believe. I feel alone.” They eventually abandoned me. isn’t that interesting? Instead of burying your feelings of being unwanted, get them out in writing, painting, dancing, running, drawing, knitting, cooking, or even just wailing! So…while i am not in your situation…i understand some of your feelings. Well maybe a little bit sometimes. Happiness comes from within. I’m going out for a walk and will prob find a cafe or somewhere to stop. It WILL pass, and you will feel happy and healthy again! Not only that, the morning brought hope and faith for a new day! when you say she can go and just drop her feelings for you and go with someone else, yes, this is VERY hard to understand and accept. Hold on. I’ve been feeling really lonely. You are your own key and answers. It’s a hard cycle to continue day after day. I needed her more then ever. This experience has hurt and left me wounded. And reach out to people in person. I know He loves it. The calls stopped, the invites were forgotten, the talks and comfort I thought I had with her became non existent. Divorce. 24. I’ve been praying because I know God loves me but sometimes I feel like it will be like this forever. Maybe you stayed up most of the night eating and watching movies instead of giving yourself the sleep you need. I have lingering health issues because I live with family that never believed how sick I was and eats anything I put in the fridge, left me in a vacant house once. My mom from the womb hated me. I feel insignificant, I feel I am in the way. I have to remember my relationship with myself matters more than my relationship with anybody else. When did it start and what was happening at that time? Do not loose faith, sooner or later everything ALWAYS turns out the way that is best for us. My own mother didn’t even so much as text me. How do you react when you believe the thought that no one cares about you. Then, they’d definitely know you’d like to hang out and do something specifically with them. Plant seeds, nurture sprouts of life and growth, and celebrate the beauty that surrounds you. I wish you find happiness and your sadness and troubles go away. You are not the center of the universe. Well, i have. Just search the internet and YouTube for Byron Katie and The Work. We still go through the full range of emotions as humans. I am still struggling with all the recent evemts which has been going on but this has definately helped me. I have though about death more consistently (almost daily) these past 3 years. I would love to join and talk…. I pray that God will help me with this. you know the things you’re saying about yourself aren’t true.. if we lived in the same area I would love to be your friend!! In today’s world of technology, it seems as though people are so clueless as to how to reach out and just be freakin’ human beings anymore. When she can get around what is trying to block her communication with me, it is always her love and appreciation wanting to return, but neither of us have the power and money to succeed. Hi. I am counting you. This is to give a bit of info so it can be understood easier. I have 6 brothers and sisters with me being the middle child. I dont have courage to remove myself from the world. Thank you so much for your comment. All my friends have told me so it’s not just in my head. Everyone is just so busy with their own lives how dare i feel the need for their time. I’ve never lost my confidence in the blessing the Lord has given me, and I am His servant every day serving children in need, while fighting bureaucracy. Everytime i feel something pulled me back , I tried to forgive him and start from scratch at least 4 ot 5 times now i, too, have had a lot of hurt in my life the last 5 years and it seems that it could never get worse but it does and it always seems to be situations that are out of my control that cause my unhappiness, whether it be about money, people around me that make my life painful or the way the world is…sometimes things are beyond us and we do end up wondering what life is about, what the real reason we are here for is…but i am so very happy i found this web page and i hope you are too as sometimes we need something like this to help us feel better for a while, to help lift our spirits and this has truly done that indeed. You are here, and you love us more than we’ll ever know. Once you can except this human trite and trait…life gets SO MUCH EASIER! It will get you more in control. I know my mom is only trying to help me understand how to do something correctly, but I just start to cry and feel sand and angry, and I don’t know why.my mom says things in a different way which sounds mean, and she doesn’t understand that. I lost my father in 2016 ,then after our life become hell ,we get rejection from every side no one help us we were all alone then i start hating god i make him responsible from what i am suffering from ,i lost my happiness ,my freedom my every thing and i still hate god i didn’t get any thing from him . I am in the same lonely situation. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life so alone. I live in a super conservative state, and I’m originally from NY, so you can imagine the challenge of finding someone who would be able to love the aloha-female in me. Got to get out like a tourist. My parents are alive, but elderly, and not in good health; Mom is in a nursing home with Alzheimer’s and Dad has cancer. 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